Romantic Candles: 7 Tips to Set the Scene

Looking for romantic candles or how to set the scene for a romantic evening? Southern Oak Artisan can give you the tips you need, and we have the candles for you!
7 Tips for How to Get Romantic With Candles
If you’re aiming to create a warm, unforgettable date night at home, romantic candles are an easy way to add that special glow. Here’s how to make sure you’re setting the perfect mood—without going overboard.
1. Dim the Overhead Lights
Bright, harsh lighting can ruin a romantic vibe. Switch off (or dim) the main lights and let romantic candles do the heavy lifting. If you need extra visibility, add a soft lamp or two. You’re aiming for cozy, not clinical.
2. Choose Scents You Both Love
There’s no single “right” fragrance when it comes to romantic candles—it’s all about personal taste. If you both enjoy floral notes (like rose or jasmine), go for it.
If you prefer something sweet, more like something freshly baked? Try Lemon Bake. Prefer something with sandalwood? Give Emanation a try! The point is to pick scents that make you both happy.
You may enjoy You’re Mine– the perfect candle for a romantic evening!
3. Vary Styles and Heights
Place the candles at varying heights. It is an easy way to create an enchanting flicker. Place them on trays or small stands for visual interest, and spread them around the room to make everything glow.

4. Keep Safety in Mind
Yes, romantic candles can set the mood, but always be cautious. Keep lit candles away from curtains, blankets, or anything flammable.
And if you’re placing candles on the dinner table, try using unscented or lightly scented ones so they don’t clash with the aroma of your meal.
5. Add Personal Touches
Light some candles near a playlist of your favorite songs or place them around a framed photo that holds special meaning. A couple of well-placed details can turn a regular night into something really memorable.
You can even scatter some rose petals around our hand-poured candles for the perfect touch.
6. Experiment with Themes
If you want to go the extra mile, pick a fun theme. Love tropical vibes? Go for something like Lime But No Salt. Pair it with fruity mocktails, and play island music.
Craving cozy holiday vibes? Light Blue Ridge Pine, serve hot chocolate and wear your comfiest pajamas. A little creativity can make the evening feel truly special.

7. Let the Moment Unfold Naturally
Don’t stress if every detail isn’t perfect. Candlelight is forgiving—it hides clutter and instantly adds warmth. Just be intentional, and the romance will unfold.
The key to romance is feeling relaxed, so let go of the pressure, dim the lights, and enjoy the soft glow of your romantic candles.
Give the Gift of Romance
Whether you’re celebrating an anniversary, planning an at-home date night, or just looking for a cozy evening in, romantic candles are a sure way to set the stage.
From choosing scents you both love, to playing with candle arrangements, a few thoughtful details can transform an ordinary night into something genuinely memorable.

If you’re searching for top-quality romantic candles or unique scent suggestions, be sure to check out our Southern Oak Artisan Collection. Shop for healthy, sustainable candles for your romantic evening.
Why? Because toxic candles are never romantic.
Romance isn’t about perfection—it’s about genuine connection, and candlelight can help you find just that.